Cooking With Daughter
Feb. 2nd, 2010 12:45 pmDaughter, recently, has decided that she really enjoys cooking. Last Friday, she made a pot of soup pretty much by herself (I provided supervision, coaching, and a wee bit of carrot-chopping), and she's helped out with a few other dinners. She can follow a simple recipe accurately, if slowly, and is developing knife skills.
From my perspective, this is a double-edged sword. I enjoy not having to be fully responsible for dinner most nights, and cooking - at a bare minimum, accurate recipe-following - is a skill I'd like her to have mastered when I send her off into the world. On the other hand...did I mention slowly? Part of the problem is an issue of brute strength (or maybe aggression or confidence) - if I tell her to stir something, the top layer of the container might get shifted around a bit, but the bottom stuff won't be touched unless I encourage her to really get in there and dig. But this is frustrating for me because she won't let me help. Or even demonstrate much. Or even, in some cases, provide advice.
This is probably something I need to just relax and be patient about - provide coaching where she needs it and will accept it, appreciate the help if she's offering it, and accept that some days dinner will be kind of late.
Oh, new favorite quick-and-easy dinner:
Cauliflower & Sausage Bake
2 1-lb packages of frozen cauliflower florets
1 "loop" of smoked sausage, sliced 1/4" thick.
1 8-oz package cream cheese, softened
1 8-oz package shredded cheddar
In a big glass casserole dish, nuke the cauliflower to death - you want it extra-soft, even overcooked. Mash/break up the florets into smaller chunks. Stir in the sausage (no real need to pre-cook if you got a "fully cooked" variety, unless you know your sausage is extra-greasy when heated), then the cream cheese and cheddar. Sprinkle paprika over the top if you're so inclined. Bake at 350 degrees for 30 minutes or so.
From my perspective, this is a double-edged sword. I enjoy not having to be fully responsible for dinner most nights, and cooking - at a bare minimum, accurate recipe-following - is a skill I'd like her to have mastered when I send her off into the world. On the other hand...did I mention slowly? Part of the problem is an issue of brute strength (or maybe aggression or confidence) - if I tell her to stir something, the top layer of the container might get shifted around a bit, but the bottom stuff won't be touched unless I encourage her to really get in there and dig. But this is frustrating for me because she won't let me help. Or even demonstrate much. Or even, in some cases, provide advice.
This is probably something I need to just relax and be patient about - provide coaching where she needs it and will accept it, appreciate the help if she's offering it, and accept that some days dinner will be kind of late.
Oh, new favorite quick-and-easy dinner:
Cauliflower & Sausage Bake
2 1-lb packages of frozen cauliflower florets
1 "loop" of smoked sausage, sliced 1/4" thick.
1 8-oz package cream cheese, softened
1 8-oz package shredded cheddar
In a big glass casserole dish, nuke the cauliflower to death - you want it extra-soft, even overcooked. Mash/break up the florets into smaller chunks. Stir in the sausage (no real need to pre-cook if you got a "fully cooked" variety, unless you know your sausage is extra-greasy when heated), then the cream cheese and cheddar. Sprinkle paprika over the top if you're so inclined. Bake at 350 degrees for 30 minutes or so.